Did you see our latest tool to help spark conversation about topics that might feel tricky to bring up?

This tablemat is a fun way to normalize conversations about sexual health within your families. Use it during a meal, dessert, or anytime to ensure that your youth are getting the critical information they need to stay safe and healthy.

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Print double sided, in color or black and white. Directions are included.

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Guest post from John Nelson at Rape Assistance & Awareness Program

We all care so much about the youth in our lives, but we often miss a major opportunity when we choose not to talk with our kids about rape and sexual assault. Many people get nervous about how to talk to kids about this issue. The next time opportunity knocks, we want you to be ready!  Below are some tips we share with parents in our Together Keeping Children Safe training.

1.    Perpetrators are quite skilled at gaining the trust of everyone in a child’s life- they can sometimes spend years grooming a potential victim.
2.    Use medically correct names for the parts of your child’s body, even at an early age. This helps give youth the language to speak up when they experience sexual violence.
3.    Most of the time, when a child experiences sexual violence, their perpetrator is a person in a position of trust, such as a parent, family friend or mentor. It’s much less common for a child to be abused by a stranger.   
4.    Give the youth in your life the freedom to decide who can or cannot touch them. This puts them in a position of having ownership over their own body at an early age and reinforces the message that they are in control.  
5.    If a young person tells you they are experiencing sexual violence, believe them! It is very rare for youth to lie about experiencing sexual violence.

To learn more about the Rape Assistance & Awareness Program’s menu of services within our Prevention and Education Department, please reach out to our Director Of Prevention & Education, John Nelson at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. or 303-329-9922 ext. 317 Or visit us at www.raap.org.

What is the harm in using terms that aren't medically-accurate for our body parts? Check out this new article from Choice USA about it!

Our favorite exerpt:

“So what does calling your vagina a “wee-wee” or penis a “pee-pee” when you were a kid have to do with reproductive justice? Answer: Lots!

This humorous naming phenomenon illuminates just how awkward our society is about sexuality. We make socially constructed associations between sexuality and negative sentiments, e.g., shame, guilt, fear, when in actuality, there is nothing inherently negative or unnatural about sexuality. On the contrary, sexuality is an absolutely natural part of human development. Nonetheless, as products of our culture, it is engrained in us to take a negative approach to sexuality – one that “focuses on sexual problems, risks and consequences and excludes the positive aspects of sexuality.”  While educating youth about the risks of unprotected sex/sexual acts has its merits, a negative approach inevitably fosters a negative perspective on sexuality and a reluctance to engage the subject.”

Read the full article here.